Tuesday, February 13, 2007

The ones who inspired me in my journey

Just felt the itch to write...I often find myself in deep thoughts thinking about the handful of people who have really made a mark in my life, left an imprint along the way...And however ironical it may sound, I'm hardly in touch with any of them now. The set of friends that I had in my adolesence and teens is entirely replaced with a complete different set now. The few names that come to my mind foremost are Tulika, Manisha Sabharwal, Ritu Dubey, Nidhi Kapoor, Vipul Taneja, Ashish Arora, Vikas Sood,KamalKant,Tushar Dave,Pankaj, Vandana Sukhija, Anjali Mahajan, Manisha Tuli, Prabha Sattiraju, Ram Gopal, Shaju Nandakumar, Sivakumar Tammali,Mani, Samiksha Bindra. Then there is my hubby who wooed me and completely swept me off my feet with his affable ways and charm. And my sis Meera, Sweet li'l sister Chhavi and BIL Anupam who are the best companions one can have. I really cherished their company and shared my dreams with some of them. Doesn't it come across as life's paradox that the people who mattered the most to you at some point and who were a significant part of your lives are not a part of your very life anymore? Well however strange that may appear, it is true. Often I think of compiling a book with references to all the people who have touched my life in any way...I know it's a difficult task and I might leave out some names behind. I wish I could gather all those that I shared my vision with, laughed with, shared my tears and smiles with. Its been a long time but their memories are still fresh as dew in my mind, hope it remains so till the very end as they are too precious for me to part with.

11 comments:

Jimit Shah said...

Depends on what being a part of life is against not being a part of life. It's way in which everyone perceives. Geographical limitations are but unavoidable. But, does that restrict people from being a part of our lives? Or is it our lack of effort to have persistent contacts with people?
Anyways, what I've also seen is that the same set of people who were so "us" at one point of time might not be on the same wavelength a few years down - The same camaraderie might be missing ...

Deepti Jerath Pradhan said...

Yes that's the point, The same frequencies, the same viewpoints, the same fellowship missing...Not necessarily the viewpoints have to be similar but there has to be shared vision. And the efforts are definitely missing from my side except for searching on orkut...Maybe need to be a bit more proactive.

Anonymous said...

Flattered to find my name on your Oscar speech list :) I am going to tell prabha too !

Keep writing, I enjoy reading what you post ..

Unknown said...

It is great to see a good sized list of people who you believe have influenced you. In fact you are very fortunate to be able to count several close friends. But we need not be physically close to them in order to feel close or maintain closeness. It is the thought that matters and it can transcend any distance in no time.

Anonymous said...

Well written Deepti..
We learn to move on with time.. but yes every persons importance is so very distinct in our lives..its upto us to keep the threads live :-)
Well this is life itself .. is it not ?

Anonymous said...

I must admit that after a long gap, I am visiting your blog site. Particularly for this one, I am surprised to see that during your long stay in Overland Park (KS)....you DEFINITELY do "NOT" seem to have met at least one person/friend who influenced you in any way....

Deepti Jerath Pradhan said...

Who is "Anonymous" in the sixth Comment? Please leave your name if I know you.That way, I can connect and answer effectively.

Mani said...

good to know that i have influenced some one!! I hope it is for better :)
-Cheers.

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TULIKS said...

I am deeply moved to see my name first on your list. Isn't it a miracle that we found each other after over 20 years of long hiatus. You wrote this blog 3 years back and I ended up searching for you on internet and being lucky to find a common connection. We perhaps did have each other somewhere in our minds if not life! That’s power of thoughts, time and space notwithstanding!

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